Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

gima,

I really believe that what I am doing - db, is driving her nuts.

She isn't getting a reaction out of me, and so she just digs deeper to find things to hurt me.

I ALLOW her to hurt me when she sends me these hurtful words, and I have GOT to find a way to deal with it.

I am an analytical guy anyway, I have a need to know WHY something works a certain way, or WHY someone does what they are doing.

My W, right now is NOT the woman I love and cherish. She is a devil woman, and doesn't know what she is doing. I know each sitch is different, but can anyone recall someone as nasty as my W on these boards?

I read other sitch's, and mine seems completely out in left field compared to others.

I wish my W would wake up soon.