Originally Posted By: newmama
It sounds like your W feels guilty and is blaming you so she looks less like the bad guy!


She's been doing that since day 1 with stories of the A (which wasn't an A apparently). Now it's using my D. I have it under control though, at least I feel a do. Time will tell.

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Originally Posted By: P17
W was cuddling D while D was crying and W was telling her she loved her (didn't hear that before) and while blaming me and D's mum for stopping contact. Quite annoyed at W, but hey ho it's D's decision whether to speak to her or not.

I missed something...when were they together?


On Thursday when D spoke to W in the store. It was just more stuff I heard tonight. I keep having to piece together little bits of stories from different places. Just continue to be flabergasted (now there is a word I haven't heard in a while!) at the situation. W is simply not getting the message to leave us alone.

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Glad you had a good day, P! Mine was 80% good!


Your thread is next on my list!

Another mini update.

Got two calls this morning. One from an Unknown number (which is unusual for my mobile and on Boxing Day!) and one from W's friend (the one I visited with a present for her son on Xmas Eve).

Unfortunately (or fortunately) I am a tad hungover today with Xmas festivities to was in bed and didn't want to answer. The strange thing is that the calls were about 10 seconds apart. I thought maybe it was W trying to speak to me again about D's present. No voicemail was left again - no point I suppose ion leaving one, emailing me or texting me as I just ignore them. If she speaks to me at least she can't ignore me!

Last edited by P17; 12/26/09 03:30 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"