Merry Christmas Undefeated!!! I hope that it was great! I am in favor of exposing affairs. People go back and forth here about that though, lots of different opinions. Is this woman a soldier too? Do you have any pictures of him with you that you could tag? It would show up on her wall as a notification that he was tagged in a photo, of course he could easily remove the tag, but she might see it. Or tag him in pics with the kids, he might be less likely to remove that tag.

I have mixed feelings about contacting the OW. I did it, to no avail. I think that very often it doesnt do any good, but if this woman really doesnt know that he is married, I think that she does deserve to know... And really, cheaters lie, so I dont have a tough time beleiving that hes being honest with you about telling her the truth about his status as an H, or a father.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...