Oh, your encouragement helps. I've had a rough day. Being a SAHM for over 12 yrs has not helped for finding a job. I don't have work references, my training is out of date, and I pretty much only qualify for entry level jobs it seems. I've been applying for anything right now. It has to work around my school schedule and the kids schedule a little. I remember my L saying that I'll get rehabilitative alimony to help me get training to get a job. I'm really seeing an end to this R. I think it has to head in that direction.
@P--I felt I don't have anything left to lose. I stink at DBing it seems. I had to get it off my chest for the past 8 mos that he is an adulterer and have him read it. I was happy to tell him that he doesn't make me afraid to threaten D. If he does file, I'm ready. I mean it. There's been not one bit of remorse from that man.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10