DBD, I'm sorry but I need to hit you with the 2x4 you are expecting. I have a lot of sympathy for you, as you know, and a lot of respect for you but at the moment I am really disappointed.

You shouldn't have responded to ANY texts at all. What you have done, as you actually know, is give him all the power back. This is why he is acting the way he has been.

Your husband is doing all of this to hurt you every single way he can. The only way he knows he actually is, is by you responding to him. Nothing more.

You know he is doing this DBD. You've been told. You understand so why are you constantly playing his game? I don't get it.

Finally, one of the reasons you need to stop is his crap. He is talking crap. You are buying it and it's hurting.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"