As far as I know, this OW is flaky, too (making out with a friend in the bar in front of X and ME!!) and X just sat there and grinned. I'm pretty sure they have no activities in common, and he is isolated from all his former friends--don't know if that does anything to bring an A to an end.
But this meeting his mom is such a punch to the gut. Honestly, X really has a difficult relationship with his mom and to bring someone to meet her is a big step.
Just been sobbing all afternoon. And here I was worrying that he might be in town on Xmas eve.
I guess the hard lesson here is LET IT GO. Either way it goes, I'll just keep chewing myself up inside.
9 months is a long time for an affair. As I said in an earlier post, is it even an affair if he finishes this relationship (abrupt as that may be) and enters a new one? I am just out of the picture.
Sorry to be a downer on Xmas. Hopefully tomorrow I will feel better.
Tinsel and stars and Santa to all--
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
