Merry Christmas. I have had much more contact with TJ over the past months, and then some real lull times. I reacted to both of these by being still in between. Long story short, I invited TJ for Christmas Eve, and he drove 4+ back and forth to be with his family tonight. I have had some hints that he was interested in seeing me. It was wonderful. I even got some kisses for my efforts. Still a long way to go, but indications are positive.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.