Good job on the baby steps with going solo to the movie and the party. Staying busy is good for you, and shows your W that you're not just sitting around.
It's great she gave you a gift and card. Even if the words weren't her own, you're right that she read it and probably looked at lots of cards before she settled on that one. As far as the intimacy goes, most women feel like being intimate when they feel emotionally close to their partner. Until that emotional bank account is built up, she may not be ready. So be patient, and appreciate the snuggles and cards and small gestures for what they are. Sounds encouraging to me, but keep giving her the space she needs.
