You don't offer much background as to why--if there is a why, your H broke it off with OW.
Was it just the A petering out? Your response to the news? a combination of all those things? or just something wonderful that you will never know?
I appreciate all the hard work you are going through in piecing. Guess I am in the pity pot right now and envious of a H who just "cuts off contact." As opposed to mine who is introducing the OW to his mother over Xmas.
So I was re-reading threads to see if there is a theme to a turn around point, or if every A just plays out its own individual way.
I hope your holidays with H are going well. Peace and strength to both of you.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process