Rocked--going way back to your first posts--

You don't offer much background as to why--if there is a why, your H broke it off with OW.

Was it just the A petering out? Your response to the news? a combination of all those things? or just something wonderful that you will never know?

I appreciate all the hard work you are going through in piecing. Guess I am in the pity pot right now and envious of a H who just "cuts off contact." As opposed to mine who is introducing the OW to his mother over Xmas.


So I was re-reading threads to see if there is a theme to a turn around point, or if every A just plays out its own individual way.

I hope your holidays with H are going well. Peace and strength to both of you.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process