well, we had 25 people over last nite. turned out nice. wife snuggled this am with me.This always seems like a good thing, but i'm cautious and skeptical. She gave me nice cologne and a nice card...a hallmark type but with really nice stuff about love and caring and mushy stuff. Too bad it's hallmark and not her words, but i'm sure she read it first! This is the stuff that throws me off balance; nice card, gift,snuggling,etc...but NO intimacy. As far as GAL, i went to a movie one nite solo, I went to a frinds party solo. She seems to Want me to go out and GAL. I've been very careful not to crowd her or make ANY relationship talk as per the advice here and in the book. BUT , as you know, each day is an eternity when you are waiting for some sign that there's been a turn around or change of heart.