I can't stress enough about how important it is to protect yourself financially. They are brutal with money, it seems to be a weapon that they use to control, humiliate and manipulated you. Please do what you have to do to have income, if that means get a lawyer than do that. Peace stated it well. My ex spent ALL the kids college money, ALL. They have no feelings at this point regarding right and wrong.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11