I can't stress enough about how important it is to protect yourself financially. They are brutal with money, it seems to be a weapon that they use to control, humiliate and manipulated you. Please do what you have to do to have income, if that means get a lawyer than do that. Peace stated it well. My ex spent ALL the kids college money, ALL. They have no feelings at this point regarding right and wrong.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11