Few more texts back and forth after that. My reply was that I better not hear anything from the kids that isnt acceptable from him and since he broke it, he will pay for it or I will ensure the proper action is taken to make sure he repairs the damage he has done. She replied with "like I would really have him around our kids after tonight". I had to go there and say "sometimes I dont know what to believe" so X was like "?What? You know I question certain things as well but I told him in Sept I didnt want to be serious"
That kinda supports my theory of wanting to keep him around as whatever until X thought she could get me to come back. Guess I should have replied with "then ask me then". I think I knew where that came from since she has asked about my friend a couple times about us every dating and accusing me of dating her back in the summer. X wants to believe there was something between us but there wasnt. Thinks she wants justification for her situation or something.
So I threw out "How did you think it would be if I would to be coming around and him still being 'a friend' during and after ours and his marriages?" I said this and it probably didnt come out like I wanted it to, but I think she knew. Sept 08, anniversary is few days into the month, so we went to dinner. It was said we ought to go back to C together, so I was on it. Well, the next night which was a Friday, she was going out of town for the weekend, and where she said, I assumed it was to her dads side of the family. I think it was him. Although she is out of town, and texting me that friday night that she wishes she was with me and the kids at the circus she got tickets for us.
Like a couple days before that, I dropped the kids off cause she didnt have to be in until 10, no I worked the night shift and stopped and got donuts for them in the morning I think. Well, anyways, I noticed some beer in the fridge. I said something, and W at the time said "thats so and so's bf beer". I thought that was quite funny since he never drinks? Well couple weeks later, I go to a race with a few buddys, and one of thems W is good friends with my W and he just happened to go to a birthday party of another of the Ws friends where this OM was. Hmmm, I think to myself. Out of anger i texted her "you are such a fake" and thats when I went to strictly business from there.
Any rate, her reply when i asked about how she thought it would be was "I dont know, guess I figured we'd drift apart and not talk if u and I were able to come together again in the future. I obviously didnt think. I mean I woulda never thought he would do that. Im just so sorry." She asks if I am still there after a while and I tell her busy with family so she wants to talk more Sunday hopefully, and I didnt want to ruin her night anymore than it had already been so I didnt say anything about not wanting to go out to eat anymore for now.
Sorry for all the quotes, just giving you a good idea about it all. Wrote more than I wanted to but wanted to get it off my chest. This doesnt get me all hostile cause I am not that way. Made me think about it for a while tho after it happened how him or both of them can pull something like this on me.
