Thanks gima,
great advice.

I think my problem is, I am feeling sorry for myself, and I am feeling as if I have done something WRONG.

I am a leader-always have been.

I am going to do my best to take my control back, and not give her that power.

I sometimes don't think that I am stronger than the hurt, but I am going to have to start somewhere.

"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

SoldierDad