I have kept my sitch for the most part to myself locally. Sometimes it is hard being around family and friends not letting them know what is happening...
DB is a lonely vigil. It is best if it is kept private and shared with only trusted people that don't have a relationship with our spouses. We also want our spouses to reconnect with our families (if there's been estrangement).
On the other hand, I'm sure that there are secrets we are not privy to (nor should be) with the marriages of siblings and parents and other family members. We don't want to add a family member as a third party (or be a part of) to our marital problems.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
