Hi
This is a very difficult road and there are no quick fixes
the pain is real and it comes and goes for, a while but afterthe first few months , youve got thru the worst of it

some important points in dealing with this
seek therapy for yourself,,it helps witht the pain and detatcxhing
its too hard to do alone
'seek support..here and in other places
take care of you
good you regained your appetitie
eat, sleep rest. exercise, seek spiritual relief
definitely watch the finances
the MLCer will lie and steal and spend
last christmas my xh spent dift cards that were sent to our kids frim his mother
they have secret accounts and credit cards and will lie about everything under the sun
be aware
we have all gotten thru this and so will you
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow