Gut,

You have visions of grandeur on how this confronting will work out..Let me tell you, it will be deny, deny. Even if you have proof she will just say they are friends. I must of confronted on 5 different occasions with what I thought was good proof. I still don't know if anything physical ever happened.

What they don't get is that and emotional affair elicits the same feelings as a physical affair. In reading your posts, you are analyzing every word, every move, every situation to better discern what she is thinking. You will get to a point where you don't care what she is thinking because you will have moved a few steps closer to detaching.

This is one of those phases you will have to go through. You will find it is exhausting thinking about all this. Good luck on getting through it...


Remarried 6 mo
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