A cheated cheater

[bluerain]

Now, really, you cant unsend the email, and if you were bound and determined to send it, giving your H a heads up was probably a good idea.

As far as having second thoughts and doubts, well, that ship has sailed. And if you show self doubt after your 180, it will all backfire.

I think that you can absolutely assert your self worth without having it out with anyone- in fact, refusing to have it out with her might rob her of some satisfaction, and then you win too!

Im glad that you have a plan for tomorrow, it hopefully will take some of the stress out of it for you, I dont think that you should call him, and hopefully he will call- if he does, give the phone straight to the kids!