Hi undefeated. Did you get a response from either your inlaws or your H about the letter? I think that you should definately go dark with the inlaws for at least a little while.

I like "Im yours" by Jason Mraz, there are a few lines in that song that really helped me gain perspective during the hardest times in my sitch.

Ready for Christmas?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...