So its Xmas Eve, and WOW is all I gotta say. OM crossed the line tonight big time. He owes me a mirror!!!
Didnt really do anything for X while she was laid up but did check on her via her mom and herself day of surgery and reiterated if needed anything, just call. Well, didnt get a call until Tues, and X was sobbing this and that about arrangement with the kids I thought since we had been texting and I thought all was good, but she was overwhelmed, having some post surgery allegric reactions and her mom watching the kids and taking care of her since I was on an overtime job.
Lil texting today and X asked me to lunch Sunday and I accepted. Also was asking to play some Wii when I dropped the kids off and I said I didnt know. Well, drop them off, car still running, sleet and snow coming down, wind blowing, X asked again, I said its kinda weird. Said that cause last week she used the same word about coming into her house and I have never been in since she has had it. Was her brothers house and was in it a couple years ago.
So anyways, I did, for an hour, and in that hour, somebody knocks on the door pretty hard. Guess I should have answered. X goes down and i can hear him say "whats going on" she says nothing. Nothing loud or I would have stepped in since my kids are there. So not soon after, I get ready to leave. Son upset and tells me he had a good time today with me this and that. Go out thru the garage, her trash is knock over in its container, I walk past and then think no I better pick it up. X helped and S was right there. We both know what happened but X throws out how windy it is. I get in car, check mirrors, Oh, one is missing and pushed in. Hmmmm, I get out go around and pick up the mirror glass still in one piece in the snow and say "tell him he owes me a mirror" nice and politely and get in and leave.
I get a couple texts from X "im sorry, i know how to pick em. Ive told him im not serioius. Guess I cant be friends with him at all" then another "ill replace your mirror, im so sorry" I decide not to reply. 20 minutes go by and I get "ur really not gonna talk to me? I was so happy about u coming in" I reply pretty promptly with "Weird is all I have to say, he will buy me a mirror, not you, Im sure he can get one cheap". He works at a local body shop so I am thinking to call that place and get an estimate for it in a professional way! LOL
When he left and we both was watching as he pulled out and got er sideways in the sleet and snow, I made the comment "ya, his name is on the wii???". New game and he has been over playing. So, guess no lunch or whatever with X for a while. Time to get back to family!