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Great advice Sandi. I avoided it today. Had some opportunities to lash out and didn't but find a nice way to let her know I had seen the "wish you were here" FB post which she has to know means I saw the other one from OM saying wish I was up north learning how to ski.
She is friendly today but not as much as yesterday, but stress levels higher due to the kids behavior and a busy day trying to teach two kids how to ski. So she would probably say the same thing about me.
I have to admit, just one stress/tension free night last night was a nice change. Good to have one of those at least once a week I have found.
A weekend get away not real feasible, they are thousands of miles apart.
I won't do anything till the day after christmas or even a couple of days later and hopefully nothing without bouncing it off some people like you first on this forum.
I don;t want to ruin things for the kids. I am not working again till after the new year and I think the W is only working one more day till after the New Year. So a lot of family time and the kids don't need to be in the middle of an ugly situation.