Never mind about the talking part, I got my answer from another thread. The WAS will come around, if at all, on their own time line, not mine. I still do wonder if I should tell her I am starting MC and let her know she is welcome whenever she wants.
I am in a technical field and the primary part of my job is problem solving. Problem solving is hard wired into my nature so it is so hard to deal with something that I cant "fix"!