Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

This would be a good time for someone to invent suspended animation--just wake up on Jan. 4th and start over.

boy do I agree! If you scroll back, you will se a quote from Michele Weiner Davis that actually may support what you are saying. She pretty much says that if you were distant before the bomb, it's not necessarily good to be distant after. You should be doing a 180 of what you used to do.

food for thought...