Get all the facts on what a D in your state entails (how long, custody, money, etc.)
She might be surprised how little she gets from you if she has no expenses.
Hanging out?! That's going to be tough, no alcohol while she is there, have someone call you and you take it while she is there. Have two wine glasses drying in the sink.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
