Yeah, that would be nice! I've tried that. Can't make a person leave. When he is indignant, sure he's right, blaming, etc. there's no telling him to leave without getting a rebellion.

I swear, I still have hope he'll work on things with me, but the last few months has shown me it wouldn't be the worse thing to be alone. I have to deal with so much control, tantrums, orders, criticisms - from my husband! He's worse than my 5 year old sometimes.

But we have those moments when he hears me and I hear him and I have hope that we will somehow work this out. I can only hope.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship