So I think I basically have to file for divorce. A legal separation doesn't hold any weight with regards to enforcement. It makes me really sad that she is forcing my hand like this. LIke a 16 y/o having a tantrum, leaving damage in her wake, only to realize it much later.
I still don't want a divorce at this point. But I don't see any option other than filing ASAP. Can I delay it as we go along and still get the benefits of the court enforcement? I am also going to make her pay for her own attorney, bills, etc as of now.
Any thoughts? She is coming over today to hang out, leaving tonight, then returning tomorrow.
