EDIT - And another question if I may: Did your W ever get a chance to make amends with her mother before her passing?
Not really. She spent a week with MIL before she went into the hospital, and was there the last week, but seemed to stay detached. Like I said, W didn't want to be there the morning MIL died.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK