I need her to really separate - not continue cake eating by renting her own place and then coming and going as she pleases. This would all get hammered out in mediation I believe as well.
Yes, you do. Which is why this...
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She then sent me a series of messages stating things like there isn't much difference if I am gone since she would have the kids when I am gone and that she will be coming and going since she needs to come home to see her pets since she can't have pets in a rental.
should NOT be happening. That's not a consequence. Time to lay out a boundary. You can't stop her from D, but, a consequence of HER decision is you guys have seperate households. She will only have access to your's as an invited guest when YOU decide to invite her.
Don't let her ride the fence. Time to pick a side sweetie.
