I've been doing some reading in DB, DR, and many threads and what you have suggested setting up a time to talk about how to help seems like it goes against what they say to do.
She is expecting me to be out of the house upon her return on the 1st. I return from FL on the 29th. I have already talked with her about wanting to discuss some things w/o out S around when she gets back. If I am not suppose to bring up topics like the R then how does what you suggested fit in. I am just confused. Any suggestions/clarifications would be helpful.
Tahnks
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others." Solomon Ibn Gabriol