Initially the changes I made were designed to show her that I have changed, but not anymore the changes are for me if she notices great if she notices and doesn't care so be it. My frame of mind is she isn't coming back and I am reaching a point where I may not want her back given the extent of the infidelity. The chin is back up and will remain so. Thank you for the input.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)