WTF kind of thing is that to tell a kid on Xmas Eve? Yeah. I have a present for you but you can't get it because mummy and daddy are being mean to me?
It is petty and selfish.
Why do you have to text her? Why can't IM relay the message?
I wasn't going to text her. D's mum was as W texted her. I haven't texted her since NC. It's clear that W doesn't like going through IM - that doesn't make any difference to me but she doesn't even know IM (so it's not as if they have a history).
It's Xmas. I actually can't be bothered with this 'soap opera' anymore to be honest! Tired of this 'drama' and I AM turning into a 'drama queen'. I will do what is the right thing to do. She can do what she thinks the right thing to do is. I'm ignoring her. She can drop them off tomorrow or any other time she wants. I'm not stopping her. I have never stopped her. I just haven't replied to her like I said I wouldn't. If she wants to be petty then it's on her head, not mine.
If in doubt, do nothing?
Listening to some loud music (Foo Fighters, Pink Floys and some Zeppelin - very Xmassy :)). Tidying house. Off to collect D. Get some canapes (D's mum is making!). Off to church for the midnight service and then back home again for bed and pressie opening tomorrow with D! Off to D's mum tomorrow for some Xmas dinner, DVD watching, playing with toys and the usual things. I bought a crate of wine (not for tomorrow!) so we will have a few bottles and a laugh. I will have a chaparone there so nobody need worry
Last edited by P17; 12/24/0905:54 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
