I am thankful you all were here to help me set that boundary.
I did find out that the OW is indeed living with my H - He actually had the gall to brag about that to our S.
I thought once I find out with 100% certainty, I would be crushed but I wasn't.
It was just one more nail in the coffin...All the countless lies, half-truths, projection, blameshifting etc...I can forgive it all however I don't think (about 95% sure) we will get past it anymore. I don't think I want to...
I deserve to be loved the way I love...
I deserve to be cherished the way I cherish...
I deserve to be honored the way I honor...
I want these things in my life and now looking back I realize I haven't had them in a very long time.
I am bound and determined to have a great day today as well as tomorrow.
I have plans with both my boys tonight and then family time tomorrow.
I wish you all a wonderful Christmas filled with peace and joy.
((((Hugs))))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~