At bed time, I asked her, "You seem a bit standoffish. Do you want to talk?" Immediate hostility.
Wonderful, I would have just kept my mouth shut. You were commenting on her behavior which you can't control. That just pissed her off. Just stick to improving yourself. If her depression gets really out of hand, you will need to intervene. Keep plugging away bud.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
