. They don't need other men coming in and out of their life especially knowing their mom is married.
<sigh>
Kevin
You're not trying to set a boundary. You are trying to control the situation.
Your Girls see you as divorced already. At that age once you were separated you were divorced. Think about why your daughter came to you. Ask her if you have to. My guess is she is scared and is looking for strength from you. Focus on that. Be the strong man she needs to see as a role model. Start by apologizing for talking about her mother in a negative way. Be honest we her so she can trust you and realize that not all men are going to come and go out of her life.
Kevin, this is a crappy thing your wife is doing. You can't control it but you can still make a positive impact on your little girls.
Have a safe and merry Christmas.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
