You are right, Lotus. At this point, I would almost welcome it.

I did (in a friendly way) question the strange behavior and got plausible answers.

I'm not going to bring up my concerns regarding the A and OM because that is a question that will get me nowhere. If (worst case) she was meeting him, then she would just lie about it. If she wasn't, then it would ruin Christmas eve for nothing. There is nothing to gain by asking in this case.

I do, however have my radar up and looking just in case. I broke a long time self-control habit and checked her phone logs - no suspicious calls or texts yesterday or this morning.

I don't think anything is going on. I just hate the lingering feelings of mistrust.


Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
Walking away from a bad situation.

My Sitch

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