Yes, I see your point. I do not want to come accross as trying to "fix" her. That is not my responsibility. I will make no more talk of it.

You know, I am danmed if I do and danmed if I don't. If I am taciturn on our relationship then she berates me for not caring. If I discuss it she comes back to remind me she is leaving.

Yesterday, all day, I was calm, cool and collected. Today, I am lost and a wreck. It doen't help that I have the flu.