Really, PDT. You think I am supplicating her? Should I assert a boundry centered on her getting some help for her depression? What do you think I should do?
The boundary is for you if she disrespects you and treats you poorly. You can't set a boundary that requires someone to get some help with their depression, not in your current state, she wants to leave you, if you set a boundary of leaving her if she doesn't get help with her depression, what is the consequence for her not getting help, you leaving her? But she is leaving you, so that doesn't work.
You talk to much relationship talk.
You brought her lunch, I'll be honest, that was a very nice thing to do considering she's treating you poorly but take into account she treats you poorly because you still do nice things for her, in her current state of mind, she looks at you like you're crazy: I treat him badly, I'm leaving him, I had an affair and this guy buys me lunch and talks nicely to me and still wants to be with me, I'm not the crazy one, I think he is and I don't want to be around him anymore.
