Its working Luv. Its a slow process... go through the last few days of your thread and look for all the "first time in a long time's."
Keep it up. He need some time to process... remember that post I did about the four unholy words? Well, us guys just need some time to let things sink in.
Back up your words with actions. The ice will thaw, I'm sure of it. Remember, slips up will set him back. He's skeptical at the moment because there are a lot of changes going on in your dynamic and he's not sure if they are for real.
Remember, only a couple of days ago you told this man to "get lost." You think you're confused? Imagine what's going on in his mind at the moment.