It sounds like both of you guys each have your own very bad experiences with your former mates. I'm sorry. Kinda like being eaten by a coyote and crapped off a cliff!
Greek has a signature line that say's "be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle"...or something to that effect. I believe it to be true.
Merry Christmas guys...I hope it's as good as it can be for you.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
