@LOTUS, she actually did deny saying she had a L or that she was going to take me to the cleaners. What is obvious is that she has told her "friend" what she NEVER expressed to me - that she thought I was abusive and drank too much. During the end of 2008 and early 2009 I was drinking more than I should but by no means was a "drunk.". I quit the day she dropped the bomb and haven't looked back since.

@IWITW, I hear you. At this point, I have accepted she isn't coming back so there is no reason for me to keep these issues inside - never was before if I find something out that is something I need to keep to myself, I will.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
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