WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Ok, so how do you all do this? I've been separated for 2 months and have just now regained my appetite! I believe H is in MLC because the man who used to love his family and talked to everyone is now an introvert who only talks to his OW. He used to love being around his kids, now only takes them the minimum every other weekend...He blew off work for a week to see the OW (I suspect) when he never even took a sick day before! He's living with his sister right now and she says he's totally angry and rude all the time.

I'm trying to detach from his journey and work on myself and our children's life but I can't keep him out of my mind. I am trying to remind myself that the man I married isn't this guy but I can't seem to do it consistently. One day up.. next day weepy and borderline non-functional..

Is it too soon to expect to be detached? Is there a trick I'm missing to do it? How do I stop thinking about him and OW?