Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

WAH texted kids what to get him for Xmas. To burn a CD of their music for him. Kids are saying he's so weird. His clothes have changed, his attitude too and they say his temper tantrums are getting worse. His anger isn't just with me. The man is starting to insult S. He told S that he "has no personality and no life". WTH kind of father says that?! Luckily S says he's just talking about himself and sees that is H describing himself. The kids are so disappointed in him. They say he's boring and he's all about spending money on them to "buy" them but not be an involved dad. All he does is take them shopping or watch movies at his place. He avoids one-on-one time with them.

H also is demanding S (and D) to give him affection and demands for him to call him. S is very angry at him and is now rejecting his calls, so H has threatened to take away his phone and will not give him his Xmas gifts. S is not going to take his phone with him tonight so H can't take it away. Seems H is all about money and that's his identity. Success went to his head. And he's using the money against me by cutting me off.

I'm praying for a good day today. I'd like to spend more time reading threads, but got to pick up a couple more gifts. Hope you have a good day too!