Well I got an email earlier in the week from xw to try and settle up some of her dates upcoming with the kids. Of course vacations are still her #1 priority. Or is that OM, I can't tell. Anyway she started off the email by saying 'it was an interesting week'. To me she was still pointing fingers at me regarding my confrontation with OM, even though she brought him to my house.
She also wanted to clear up the whole 'ring' thing. Apparently it got back through OM from OMW that I had seen this ring. Well the ring, according to her is from our wedding band. I bet OM loves that. Is that not weird? She wears it on her right hand. She also still wears ear rings that I gave her. I think she's lost all her marbles.
She also wanted to have an amicable relationship. I have told her that begins with trust and respect and that's going to take quite awhile.
So, I cleared up the dates and told her it was irresponsible to take the kids out of school, again. She was way off base and lashed out saying how wrong I was and she wasn't changing anything.
So, I quoted her the plan. Three different parts shooting down her BS.
She replied that I was right and that I always had to be right and during our marriage I was always telling her what she was doing wrong. She totally buckled on everything.
This ticked me off. The rewrite of our marriage just kills me. In our first counseling she said one of the reasons she was leaving was because I didn't help out enough in the kitchen and that I liked to watch sports. Then a long time later it was because I was mean to her. I am not mean, only to OM. Now I was telling her she did everything wrong. Next it will be that I beat her. This stuff kills me.
Well I told her I was right because its clearly printed in black and white. It wasn't about me being right, its what she agreed to, what she wanted, I was just paying attention to it.
I think she's a disaster. She travels every weekend she can. OM is a freeloader, she pays for everything. What is she running from. Why does she have this 'need' to go someplace every weekend she possibly can?
