Well..... I called X to tell her what was going on. I didn't realize it, but she was with S20 at the time (took him to get a haircut), so she talked to him right away. She pretty quickly came to the conclusion that he needs some counseling, and from what she said he was amenable to it. It seems that he feels that he has been led down a path without a lot of input into it, and he doesn't know what he wants. I don't imagine having a control freal mother had anything to do with that. That wasn't nice, was it?
Anyway, I am going to call my C tomorrow, though I am not sure there will be anyone there. The plan would then be for the lot of us to go in and try to make a plan. It's got to be done next week, since he is going to visit his GF the next week. My gut feeling is that he should not go back to school this semester, though that has the disadvantage of taking him from his friends. But I am thinking he needs to be where we can watch him.
