Nope, wish I did though! I might like it better than the corporate environment where I have to wear a different face at work than I do at home lest someone not like me ; ). I agree with you about honesty though, I am a pretty progressive man but I am old school when it cones to integrity, values, etc. Your thread has been eye opening for me. As LBS, we become singularly focused on getting the WAS to want to come back. We think the battle will be won at that point, however, it appears that it is just the beginning of the even bigger battle of rebuilding trust. See, when I said that honesty is that intangible concept that really can't be fully known, in the back of my mind, I was thinking that it is trust that helps us close that gap and allows us to build intimate relationships. In situations such as ours, trust is gone which makes things really difficult as far is rebuilding is concerned. For me, only through consistent, long term effort will my W ever re-establish trust with me. Maybe at that point, I can believe that she is being honest.
I have seen it so many times on this forum, believe nothing they say and only 50% of what they do.
Seriously though, in the end, you have helped so many on this forum that you may soon be eligible for DB sainthood. I honestly hope that I can reach the point that you are at where you know that you are "high value". I wish you the best in your efforts to move your sitch forward to a better place
