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Re: Changing Man Gardener #1900949 12/24/09 12:27 AM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 3,844 Southeast G givingitmyall Member
givingitmyall Member G Joined: May 2009 Posts: 3,844 Southeast	Throw those negative emotions in the trash with the cookies. Don't let her rob you of a wonderful Christmas. How you deal with her is up to you. Start a new tradition for you and your S. Its an opportunity if you look at it that way. Me 43, S11, D7 M13 Bomb 4/20/09 Current

Re: Changing Man iwantittowork #1900950 12/24/09 12:29 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener OP Member
OP Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	iwitw, Originally Posted By: iwantittowork Hey Gardner, I am over in Surviving the big d myself, but I hope to not see many new arrivals there myself.. Let us know how your doing, and how things with mediator are going.. If only all the Open Forums on this site weren't seeing "many new arrivals" the world would be a happier place! Thanks for checking in. Merry Christmas! Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1900951 12/24/09 12:29 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless Member
luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	. She destroyed everything. The cookies are in the garbage RIGHT? M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: Changing Man luvless #1900961 12/24/09 12:51 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener OP Member
OP Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	luv, Originally Posted By: luvless . She destroyed everything. The cookies are in the garbage RIGHT? Not sure I get your point. Please explain (I'm a bit slow, tonight). Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1900969 12/24/09 01:06 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 124 P pitinmygut Member
pitinmygut Member P Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 124	Hang tight Gardener. Like others have said, don't let the negative emotions ruin your holidays. I know a lot easier said than done....I am trying to do the same. Any time I feel myself getting down, I do my best to stop those emotions and concentrate on the good things in my life...my son being the #1 thing in my life now. I will have him Xmas afternoon (and the rest of the weekend) and go visit some family and friends with him. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE HERE! Me 44/W 32 S1 M8 Bomb 9/25/09 Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1900972 12/24/09 01:10 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless Member
luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	Originally Posted By: Gardener luv, Originally Posted By: luvless . She destroyed everything. The cookies are in the garbage RIGHT? Not sure I get your point. Please explain (I'm a bit slow, tonight). Oh...I'm just agreeing with you...like right huh? M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: Changing Man pitinmygut #1900973 12/24/09 01:11 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener OP Member
OP Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	pit, Originally Posted By: pitinmygut Hang tight Gardener. Like others have said, don't let the negative emotions ruin your holidays. Thanks. Originally Posted By: pitinmygut ]my son being the #1 thing in my life now. I will have him Xmas afternoon (and the rest of the weekend) and go visit some family and friends with him. That's great. Enjoy (how could you not?). MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE HERE! [/quote] Last edited by Gardener; 12/24/09 01:11 AM. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1900996 12/24/09 01:47 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,585 Northeast G Gypsy Member
Gypsy Member G Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,585 Northeast	She has open access to the house? Keys, can enter as she pleases? Uhhh.... I guess you have the same liberties with her place, too. hugs

Re: Changing Man Gypsy #1901023 12/24/09 03:33 AM
Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 653 OH S SpyBunny Member
SpyBunny Member S Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 653 OH	Gardener- Wishing you a Merry Christmas with your son! Bunny W42/H42/M20 S/19,D/17 On My Own: 11/28/09

Re: Changing Man SpyBunny #1901413 12/24/09 08:56 PM
Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 827 Massachusetts I iwantittowork Member
iwantittowork Member I Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 827 Massachusetts	Merry Christmas to you and your family Gardner! M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09 On board the D train now.. "Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."

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