Wife is OK touching children, especially when they were young. Yes, she was very good with breast feeding and enjoyed it.
Yes, I'm affectionate with the kids, and was especially so when they were young. I had them on my shoulder for hours every day as I went about tasks at home, and loved every minute of it.
And my wife and I were very affectionate too the first couple of years. But I remember well the little event that, only in retrospect, was clearly a turning point. It was when I gave her a hug, like I had done many times before, and as usual, just the sight of her made me aroused. But that particular time, for the first time, instead of feeling complimented, she said with annoyance, "I hate the way you're always so sexual". It was kind of a shock, and I tried to dismiss it as her just being tired or something. But in retrospect, it was a very telling moment, and my gut reaction at the time was correct after all. My sexual feelings for her changed from being a compliment to being just an annoyance she had to deal with.
