I am over in Surviving the big d myself, but I hope to not see many new arrivals there myself.. Let us know how your doing, and how things with mediator are going..
If only all the Open Forums on this site weren't seeing "many new arrivals" the world would be a happier place! Thanks for checking in. Merry Christmas!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac