She has no guarantee, and I don't think that's unfair. How can he give her a preemptive guarantee that all will be forgiven when he knows the truth without knowing what that truth comprises?
My point exactly.
Maybe it's just me but I think i've given enough: my marriage, the past 2 years of my life living in limbo and her having an affair/affairs seems to me like something has been taken away from me. I don't think I want to give anymore at this point, that's not me being selfish, it's just me being honest with what I want to have and what I want to give if anything.
