I do hope my XH will not ask for the money again but somehow I also have the feeling he will do it again. However, I will be prepared. Be assured that I will not give in. Every time he wrote about it I just had to think of all the things he did to me! And yes, I learnt the hard way to deal with it.
Thank you for your wishes for 2010. I also wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year.