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patpat #1900574 12/23/09 04:42 PM
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Originally Posted By: patpat
BTW... how do you make those "quote" boxes on your threads?


Click on "quick quote" right before you respond and it will appear in the box.


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soleil #1900711 12/23/09 07:23 PM
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"quick quote"! So that is what that is..... grin See? I do everything the hard way!


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patpat #1900713 12/23/09 07:24 PM
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Pat, don't discuss anything about your W with the employees. I didn't remember about them knowing of the S.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
sandi2 #1900718 12/23/09 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted By: sandi2
"quick quote"! So that is what that is..... grin See? I do everything the hard way!


Sandi, LOL. I just read your original response to how you do the quoting. smile Sandi, if you don't mind, can you comment on my sitch?

And Pat, I agree, you don't have to tell your employees about what's going on. If someone asks and you're not comfortable, just say she's fine and couldn't make it. Go and enjoy yourself!


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soleil #1900863 12/23/09 10:40 PM
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Hey Sol

I will not talk about it. W has been seen holding hands with OM at Walmart etc....

Everyone at my work knows us both. We generally are the life of any get together my co worker have. So, that being said, rumors are fliing all over work. I just pay it no mind. but most avoid the subject when I am around.

Also, I can't just tell them she couldn't make it. Its at our house... cry But it will be ok. NO WORRIES....!


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
patpat #1900874 12/23/09 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By: patpat
So, that being said, rumors are fliing all over work. I just pay it no mind. but most avoid the subject when I am around.

Also, I can't just tell them she couldn't make it. Its at our house... cry But it will be ok. NO WORRIES....!


Let the rumors fly! It's none of their business at all. And if they ask why she isn't there (at your home) just say she is visiting with family or something. Or say nothing and/or act like you didn't hear the question and keep moving. Hugs!!!


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I like that movie "Forrest Gump"

Remember when Mrs Gump was trying to get little Forrest into public school and it was just a matter of a few IQ points, then Mrs Gump said, well, I'm sure something can be doneto which the principle said, "rs Gump, is there a Mr Gump".


She replied, "HE'S ON VACATION!"

I don't know, everytime someone asked me where my W is at, if I know they know, I just walk away, continuing on as if I never heard them. But every time I think about the vacation line in the movie.

Wish it were that simple.


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
patpat #1900910 12/23/09 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted By: patpat
"rs Gump, is there a Mr Gump".

She replied, "HE'S ON VACATION!"


HAHA! Yep! On Thanksgiving, my mother's friend asked me,"Sol, Where's your husband?" As he was saying this I had my face/head in the refrigerator getting something and I turned around and smiled really big and said, "So is your daughter coming over?" I think he thinks I didn't hear him and he didn't press! MUAHAHA!


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I plan on having a great time on Christmas.

Ham, the whole nine yards.

Wooried a bit though, finances this month have taken a serious dive. Nothing I can't recover from though, but mam oh man!

Sol - I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas and a ton of smiles.

Me - I'm just making it day by day!

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Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
patpat #1900952 12/24/09 12:32 AM
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(((((S2)))))


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
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